Sunday, April 28, 2013

Our Condolences to Michael Haz and his family.





Michael Haz said...
The old man's funeral was yesterday, on a beautifully clear, sunny morning.

The service was small - most of his friends already died, and our family is smallish. We made it all about optimism, hope, happiness and cheer; the traits he held all his life.

His last month was like falling off a cliff as we moved him from home to assisted living to nursing home to hospice all in four weeks time. We could barely keep up. It's calm now, and his next move in two weeks will be to the cemetery in a small town in central Wisconsin where he was born. He'll be buried near his parents, brothers, sister an other relatives.

His last words were spoken to a nurse who jostled him while adjusting the sheets on his bed, causing him a moment of pain. While she was apologizing over and over, he looked up at her, smiled, and said "Don't worry doll, everything will be okay." It's become our family mantra."


Michael I am sorry for your loss. I know you have been dealing with it and it was not unanticipated but it will still be a blow.

Please know that our prayers are with you.

4 comments:

ndspinelli said...

Michael, My prayers for you and your family. Although you have known this was coming, you're never really prepared. Your old man lives in you, I can tell that. Love, Nick.

Michael Haz said...

Dear Friends:

Thanks so very much for your kind and thoughtful words here, on the other thread and the messages sent privately. They are greatly appreciated.

Regards,

Michael

Evi L. Bloggerlady said...

I am sorry for your loss Michael.

Dust Bunny Queen said...

Condolences to you and your family Michael. We have just gotten back yesterday evening from a 4 day visit with my husband's mother who is 84 and still going strong, thank God. I need to go and visit with my father in the next month who is not exactly failing as much as shrinking. Time is slipping by faster than we want and we shouldn't miss any opportunity to be close to our families.

Someday soon we will be dealing with something similar to your situation in our own families. I just hope that we can handle it with the grace and composure of you and yours.