Sunday, June 22, 2014

Remembrance of Things Pabst

So we went out on Friday Night to relax after another grueling day. When we got to the Greek place it was pretty crowded because it was Friday night at 7:30 and everyone was out on a beautiful night. Since we are in with the in crowd already Lisa went in to talk to the owner. She didn't want to sit in the back because it was too hot and we wanted to sit in the window. So the owner said no problem I will save you a table. Go and have a drink and come back in half an hour.

There is this hipster bar that I have never gone into down the street. It has been open for a bout ten years. It is called "Brooklyn Social." The gimmick is that they took over the space of an old social club. The Society De Riposto which was an Italian group based on people from Bari. I had gone into the joint several times to play cards back in the day. One of my fathers good friends was the President for about twenty years and when one of my buddies wanted to get into the serious game there I went with him to get him in. I wasn't there for long. Didn't sit in for more than a couple of hands. Just to make the introduction. Since they always took his money they were cool with that.

Anyway these hipster guys took over and their idea was not to change much. Same decor. Same fixtures. Just put in a pool table and a ladies room and you were good to go.

We belly up to the bar and order. I can have one glass of wine which I did and Lisa had a Cosmo. We talk to the bartender as we do and what do you know? He recognized us from the show because he lived across the street and saw us filming and made sure that he caught it when it was on. Small world.

What was good about the bar was that were not a lot of young kids in there so we felt comfortable. I said to Lisa "Hey it's an older crowd. And I am ten years older than everyone so if anybody calls me pops I will have to pop him in the snoot." Like I could do that. I am too fucking old for that foolishness.

The music was good too! Van Morrison. The Doors. Fogerty. Classics that the Old Dawgs would play. Just not a lot of Mail Order Filipinos. Just older dirty hippie chicks with grey hair under their arms.

They kept a bunch of the old photos and memorabilia from the club. It was funny to look at them and see some of the old characters from the neighborhood. I was naming them to Lisa when the bartender heard me and said they had no idea who they were and wanted to write it down. I said no way. Let those guys rest in peace. They were mostly simple workingmen but a couple of wiseguys were mixed in who were best not mentioned if you know what I mean.

A staple in clubs of that era (the sixties) would have this photo of the first Catholic President. Everyone had high hopes for him. Of course in some of the other social clubs they would throw darts at it or even shoot at it after Bobby went after the Mob. But these guys always had a soft spot for the first Family of Catholic America no matter how much they fucked up. Luckily none of their daughters got drowned or killed with a golf club or something.


The group shots of the old membership and their citations and awards were more interesting to me.  You see this joint was for the guys who couldn't get into the Knights of Columbus for one reason or another. I think the Pope would excommunicate them or something.

They did add some modern signs of the times just to keep current. They have to have rules after all.

I was generally enjoying myself but then I realized I couldn't stay and keep drinking. I am on a strict diet of one glass of wine a night and I had my quota in the first five minutes we were there. So I was not happy. We paid up and went on to the Greek Place.

We got our table. But they have to get to know me better. Because you can say a lot of shit about me but you can't say that.

Just sayn'

49 comments:

Evi L. Bloggerlady said...

Things change, but I am glad they did not change too much in that social club.

Lem the artificially intelligent said...

That is certainly true... Trooper is not "reserved".

It sounds like you enjoyed yourself.

blake said...

You gonna lighten up on the dietary restrictions any time soon, or is it a forever thing?

Palladian said...

I'm sorry to change the subject but I'm looking for some advice. As I've probably written somewhere, when I was evicted I put almost all my possessions that I could salvage into a storage unit in Brooklyn. During the ensuing year, it's been a great struggle to pay the bill for the unit; it's 388 dollars a month. I've been late with payment a lot (incurring between 75-175 dollars worth of late fees for every month), and have gotten into trouble and almost had my stuff sold twice. It's literally eaten up all the money I was able to make, save or scrounge for the year.
Now that I'm dealing with some serious mental and physical health problems, I have reached a point where it's totally untenable to keep this up. I managed to pay off everything I owed to the storage space except for June, but I just can't keep facing this every month. I have really struggled to find a solution to this problem of how to get my stuff to a place that I can afford to keep. Well, I finally managed to find a place in rural PA not far from where I'm currently staying, that's actually larger than the unit in Brooklyn and is only 50 bucks a month, which I can manage. But the problem is how to get my stuff from the unit in Brooklyn to south central PA. I don't drive. I've never had paid movers, except when I was evicted and spent over 1000 dollars to have my belongings moved from Broadway to Grand Street in Brooklyn. Does anyone have any experience with this sort of state-to-state move? How much does it generally cost? How would I even go about arranging such a thing, as I'm not currently physically or psychologically able to even travel up to NYC? The unit I have now in Brooklyn is 10' x 15' x 8' and is probably a little over half full. Most of my stuff is boxes, a few pieces of furniture, but nothing huge. I left my couch, bed, big bookcase, desk behind when I was evicted.

If any of you guys have any practical advice or suggestions I'd appreciate it.

People have asked me why don't I just let the stuff go and move on, but it's everything I have ever owned: most of my artwork, most of my studio supplies, my kitchen implements, my books, my perfumery equipment, personal things, negatives, film, etc. I have a lot of valuable things, some of which I could be selling right now to raise money for living & medical expenses, getting myself back on my feet. It's too much to "let go"; I was already forced to leave a lot of it behind when I was evicted because I didn't have time or resources to move everything. When I have a home again, I want to be able to at least put some of the pieces of my life back together again. Letting that go just isn't an option, at least if I can avoid it.

Again I'm sorry to interject this here. It took me days to get up the courage to write this comment. I feel like such a bum and a downer and I can imagine that my sob story over the last year has gotten tiresome. I apologize for that. I just wondered if anyone had any idea about what a move like this entails.

Palladian said...

Thanks for putting up with me around here.

Shouting Thomas said...

If they don't have Filipinos, what kind of place is that?

Do they have a music room for the Old Dawgz?

Trooper York said...

I will send you an email.

blake said...

Fuck people who say let it go. Should you take up Buddhism, you can decide to do that, when you feel like it.

Darcy said...

I'm in for whatever help Evan needs to get his stuff to PA. Email me in how I can help. Please.

Aridog said...

I'm also in for what help I can provide Evan in this move effort....and I mean separate from our other transactions.

Aridog said...

I should add: thank you Evan for coming back and posting again, even if under duress. You have friends and you need them now in my opinion, which I know you've already heard enough from me directly. We all do.

Ruth Anne Adams said...

Palladian,
I think this is a very positive move both toward your monthly bottom line and for your peace of mind. Your stuff is your stuff. I emailed Trooper that I'm able to help, but only with dollars.

Like my husband, I'd rather take an ass-kicking than move. We are both overcome by such inertia.

Chip S. said...

In answer to the question you asked, P., there are probably lots of local, independent guys who'll move your stuff pretty cheaply. Much more so than a big-name moving co.

Someone from listings like these, as long as they can provide you w refs.

Maybe TY's driver knows somebody who'd do it cheap. Heck, it's a pretty easy load of stuff.

Michael Haz said...

Trooper, you have my email address. Let me know what I can do to help Evan.

Lem the artificially intelligent said...

Me too Trooper... you got my email.

MamaM said...

I'm not clear as to what is happening with the emailing. Has financial support for the move already been provided? Are funds currently being collected to help with it? Is Trooper serving as the point person on this?

I understood from a previous comment made by Aridog that donation was possible through a Pay Pal account. Is that still a viable option for contribution?

JamesR said...

Silent Jim the Lurker, here. Trooper, I think you must have my email, right? Nick may also still have it from an exchange a few months ago.

I would appreciate being aimed in the right direction, whether it be through some paypal thingy, or other means, so that I can assist in my own small way with helping fund Palladian's move.
Thank you.

JamesR said...

And as long as I have emerged from the shadows of the South Florida swamp ("laces out Dan!"), I would like to express my sincere gratitude to everyone who has made a concentrated effort to ignore that shithead lawn care specialist when he posts at Lem's.

This place and Lem's provide a respite from the real world for me; but rather than being amused by his attempts to torpedo Lem's blog by hijacking threads, I find that it ruins the experience for me. Maybe that's just me - but in any event, his absence has been like a breath of fresh air.

Cheers. I appreciate you all. Now, back to my cave I go.

ndspinelli said...

James R, What a pleasant surprise. Getting to know you when our good friend was on the disabled list was a good thing that came out of that health scare. I emailed Trooper yesterday and told him to let me know what to do to help. I'm sure I still have your email and will get it to him. You are a clutch hitter and a good man. Stay cool!

You are spot on regarding lawnboy. If anyone had any doubt about his anger, along w/ his wives, it is now dispelled. All ego and no character. Maybe they should become pols like the Clintons.

Evi L. Bloggerlady said...

ndspinelli, are you coordinating help for Evan or is troop. Where and how?

Trooper York said...

Sorry computer problems today.

Trooper York said...

Sorry computer problems today.

Aridog said...

EVI...I presume TY is coordinating what he can...being the dude from Brooklyn and all that. Stuff in Brooklyn needs to get to PA, and Trooper is better qualified than anyone to help arrange that.

If I am wrong here, someone please advise. I'd not delve in to arranging movers from NYC to PA when Trooper is around. At the moment I believe the move is the most important thing to Evan. I already know how to just send money.

Trooper York said...

I'm working on it. Details tonight.

Trooper York said...

I'm working on it. Details tonight.

Trooper York said...

I'm working on it. Details tonight.

Evi L. Bloggerlady said...

Thanks for the update.

It is like Troop was Jimmy Two Times with the repeat!

ndspinelli said...

Trooper is channeling Mel Tillis.

JamesR said...

Nick,

I found the email I sent. It was to your wife's email, on September 27th of last year. Hard to believe it's been that long.

I'll log back in tonight for updates from Trooper.

Jim

Darcy said...

Evan,
Pretty sure nobody here thinks you're a bum and I'm also pretty sure they are glad to hear from you. I love the phrase "pay it forward". Someday, if you can, I don't have a doubt that you will.

@Troop
Excellent. I will check back in the morning to see what the plan is. I got busted at work for internet use (I had it coming) so I have been scarce during the day.

@JamesR
I'm pretty sure I've urged you to de-lurk and comment before. I won't bug again. But nice to hear from you.

ndspinelli said...

James, That's right, she had a PayPal account, I don't. Feel free to email me anytime @ ndspinelli@gmail.com. Just to chew the fat, if you wish.

ndspinelli said...

Darcy, That lesbo porn is always a red flag.

Darcy said...

Huh?

blake said...

Heheheh. Took me a moment, too.

Mr. Spinelli is suggesting you were slapped down for Internet use of an inappropriately Sapphic nature. (I don't know what an appropriately Sapphic nature would be for a law firm but whatevs.)

chickelit said...

Some of Troop's posts would set off a NSFW alarm. Spinelli wouldn't know about such things, being comfortably retired.

Darcy said...

Oh. LOL. No. Well, I was on TY from work. And Lem's. Somebody snitched and they ran a report. Very embarrassing but I was browsing too much. So no more from work.

ndspinelli said...

Darcy, Snitches are the lowest form of human. They literally get their throats slit in the joint. I don't see you shankin' the bitch or bastard, but how about some dirty tricks

blake said...

Darcy's too good a Christian for that.


Some of her friends on the other hand...

Trooper York said...

Info is up on the next post.

Sorry I was ultra busy today.

chickelit said...

@Mamam: I left a link for you back under your tantalizing comment.

JamesR said...

@Darcy,

I don't comment much on blogs primarily due to lack of time. I can't do this during my work day (although I violated that rule yesterday and again today - F 'em), which runs from around 7:30 am to 6:00 p.m.

And then at night, after the dishes are done and the other evening tasks completed, I settle in and cruise the Net, and enjoy Lems and Troopers via an Ipad -- and I just don't like typing with my thumbs. (my text messages on my phone, is as cryptic as I can make them). It is a slow and pondersome process for me, and doesn't allow me sufficient freedom I would need to bestow my vast stores of accumulated wisdom upon the unwashed masses.

Or, in the more likely alternative, to go all President Mom-Jeans on Lawnboy, after I've had my second Manhattan.

Is that way too much infomation? See, personal insecurities as in, I probably have nothing really useful to contribute anyway, is also a bit of a deterrant.

And so ...if we could envision it being a live, in-person party at Trooper's house, I am the guest sitting over to the side, on the couch, quietly enjoying the loud banter and discussions going on among the regulars -- but since it's not live, you can't see me smiling, nodding in agreement and laughing along.

Cheers. And Palladian is going to get his stuff to Amish country come hell or high water.

ndspinelli said...

JamesR, You're our resident uber introvert. I am an introvert myself. However, this forum is attractive to me. Maybe you just need a keyboarding class?

Darcy said...

@JameR
I totally get that! I don't have the energy to comment much after work but I do read. Good to know that you're out there and enjoying the comments!

Darcy said...

@Nick
I'll admit to revenge fantasies over the snitching. But I think "karma" will take care of this person. I rightly got in trouble but for very petty reasons.

Paddy O said...

We're running very thin hereabouts (with big bills upcoming), so I'm not able to contribute (which makes me feel like a bit of jerk), but I do want to say how amazing it is that this is all coming together.

One of my big frustrations about church stuff over the years was the rhetoric about community. When people were in need, when I was, there as just a lot of good words.

I don't see eye to eye with everyone around here, in a lot of ways, but I'm utterly amazed by the practice of help. That's what life should be like. It usually isn't. But when it is, I get my hope that it could be more so. And, honestly, see you all as great examples for me.

Thanks for restoring my faith just a little bit.

Palladian, you're absolutely right to hold onto the stuff. Sometimes stuff is just stuff, but over the years you'd shared enough to see how that really is also a big part of your heart and creativity. I pray everything gets back on track in every way. Wish I could do more.

MamaM said...

Seeing what encouragement, support and connection looks like apart from financial contribution is also heartening.

@ Chickelit Thanks for the tweak! I found it and wouldn't have gone back with it. Appreciating the link.

Palladian said...

Paddy, and everyone: thanks for the kind words and care. It really means a lot to me.

TrooperYork said...

I sent out an email to everyone who expressed an interest. If you didn't get one and want to know what's up just email me at jimdolan2@live.com.

Darcy said...

Got the email. Thank you!