You need to be self-aware!

I think in life you have to have a modicum of self-awareness. You have to have an idea about how you look to other people. Now I realize how I come off most of the time. As an arrorgant big mouth overbearing asshole. But that is my style. I don't mean anything by it. It is just the way I am. I tell people that if I get out of line just say "Hey stop being a loudmouth asshole and listen to me." And I will.

But some people have no self-awareness. They think everything they do is cool. They don't have a fuckin' clue. And people buy into it and validate and enable the shit that they do. Nobody has the balls to call them on it and tell them to cut the shit.

That is how you can go wrong. When you surround yourself with toady's and syncophants they just kiss your ass and don't tell you where you went wrong. You persist in your folly and outside observers just shake their head and write you off as an asshole and a douche.

But then you would be perfect as the coach of the Jet's. Just sayn'